For privacy we will call the people i live with;
My boyfriend= Derek
My oldest= Cory
My youngest= James
Boyfriends cousin= Dustin
So today I was talking with a friend of mine from way back that is going through a similar issue as me. She got married and got her heart broken, but her husband wont agree to a divorce. She started seeing someone while she is married but separated from her current husband. My friend is so happy her daughter and son look up to the man she is with as a father. Well, her boyfriend proposed to her last night, she didn't give him an answer. So she called me today and told me and asked me what I thought. I told her that even though she is legally married doesn't mean she can't be engaged until her and her boyfriend can figure out how to get the divorce taken care of.
I asked my friend if she was truly in love with her boyfriend and she said she never knew what true love was until she met her boyfriend. Her kids love him and he loves them. She said her kids started doing better in school and behave a lot better since hes been in their life.
We talked a little more and asked me if she should tell him yes. I looked away from my phone and saw a picture on my computer of me and "Derek" and I told her, if she's ready for a new beginning, then tell him yes.
The point of me telling you all of this as my viewers is because, love is so many things. Good and bad, and you don't really know what or when it will happen. If you are truly in love then go for it. It's for everyone, but you just need to look for it. I thought I found it with my husband, but I wasn't good enough for him and he had another family with someone else while married with me. I left him and filed for divorce and he won't except it. I moved on while being separated and I met Derek. My youngest son loves him and looks at him as a father. I fall in love every time Derek looks at me, comes to bed at night, takes care of me when I'm sick, takes care of "James" when he's sick, plays with him or just wants to talk with me or James. I know in my heart that when "Cory" comes home Derek, James, and Cory will love each other just as much as Derek and James already do. I dream about the day that Cory comes home for good.
Now anyone that knows Derek and myself knows that we argue a lot and we disagree, but at the end of the day we realize how stupid our arguments are and how much we love each other. We know if we didn't argue or disagree our relationship wouldn't grow and we wouldn't be happy. Nothing is trivial. For those who don't know what trivial means, something to little or small. Nothing is to little or to small for me and Derek. We take everything to heart and we work it out, because we love each other. I just want you as my viewers to know that. I want you guys to know that no matter how small it is argue just a tiny bit and when you guys realize that you still love one another, laugh. Laugh as hard as you can, give each other a hug and a kiss and tell each other you love them and work it out.
Well that's all I have for right now at the moment. Comment your opinions, or if you have questions or need advice.
Love each other and tell one other as much as you can. We are not going to been on earth forever.
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